popular topics in raising an adopted child
- Search for BirthparentsAdopted Adults Who Search for Their BirthparentsAdopted Adults Who Search for Their Birthparents To search, in adoption terminology, means to seek out a biological relative. Most searchers try to locate their birthmothers, sometimes followed by a search for the birthfathers. Some searchers tr...
- Disrupted AdoptionDisrupted AdoptionsDisrupted Adoptions Some adopters decide they cannot handle severe physical, emotional, or psychiatric problems that show up in their adopted child. What happens when a child's behaviors fall too far short of the parents' expectations? Researche...
- Challenges With an Adopted ChildTroubled Adopted ChildrenTroubled Adopted Children This section is about more serious behavioral and psychological problems that some adopted children sometimes have, problems that are difficult for them and for their parents. They may stem from earlier abuse or from a ...
- Challenges With an Adopted ChildRaising Your Adopted Child: ProblemsRaising Your Adopted Child: Problems Adoptinfo An adoption issue is a problem that preoccupies and distresses an adopted child and is related to adoption. For example, fear that a birthparent might kidnap the child is an adoption issue. So what ...
- Challenges With an Adopted ChildAdoption: Dealing with Genetic DifferencesAdoption: Dealing with Genetic Differences Some adopters have difficulty accepting a child who looks very different from what they envisioned. (However, most adopters don't have a problem with the fact that their kids probably won't look much li...
- Informing the Adopted ChildExplaining Adoption to a Child: Handling Sensitive SituationsExplaining Adoption to a Child: Handling Sensitive Situations In many cases, parents can tell their children that birthparents made a positive choice to place them for adoption. But sometimes the situation was not so upbeat or easy to explain. H...
- Informing the Adopted ChildExplaining Adoption to a TeenagerExplaining Adoption to a Teenager It's important that children know they were adopted before they reach adolescence; it's too turbulent a time to suddenly surprise them with the news. Even if your teenage child already knows, however, he may sti...
- Informing the Adopted ChildExplaining Adoption to a School-Aged ChildExplaining Adoption to a School-Aged Child As children grow, they start to ask even tougher questions about adoption. For example, if the birthmother was poor, why didn't someone give her money so she could be a parent? Or, if she wasn't ready t...
- Informing the Adopted ChildExplaining Adoption to a Young ChildExplaining Adoption to a Young Child A simple story about adoption can suffice for the child who is 3 or 4. Most children like to hear their “adoption story.” When my son was little, he loved his story. He wanted to be told again and again h...
- Challenges With an Adopted ChildBehavior Problems in Adopted BrotherThe key to changing what your adopted brother does is to change the way you respond to his behaviors. ...
- Informing the Adopted ChildMy Mom Won't Tell Me About My AdoptionAt 15, you are mature enough to know the facts surrounding your birth and adoption. ...
- Informing the Adopted ChildTelling a Child She's AdoptedThere are many resources and organizations that advise adoptive parents on how and what to tell adopted kids at every chronological and developmental age and stage. ...