The other thing that you will have to commit to, however, is making sure you are giving her "time-in" when she is behaving well and expressing herself appropriately with her words. Usually, children who try to get negative attention are feeling that they aren't getting enough attention of any kind, so they settle for the negative. You need to make a concerted effort to catch her being good, and reward her for this good behavior by giving her your undivided attention for a period of time.
Four-Year-Old Sticks Her Tongue out
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