You are probably right that his school work is being affected by the lack of boundaries. I don't know that counseling for him without counseling for the entire family would be effective. On the other hand, a support group for children of divorce could be especially helpful to everyone in the family. You and his father might check into whether such groups are offered at his school or through a local marriage and family counseling group.
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