I strongly doubt there is much either of you can do to make this girl feel better about this situation. He can keep assuring her of his love and of his desire to be a part of her life. There is always the possibility that she will be able to accept this better as an adult if the two of you have maintained a healthy, long-lasting relationship. Your fiancee and you certainly would both benefit from professional family counseling. Receiving advice and support from a nonjudgmental professional would prove most helpful. Good luck.
Fiance's Daughter Opposes Marriage
Carleton Kendrick has been in private practice as a family therapist and has worked as a consultant for more than 20 years. He has conducted parenting seminars on topics ranging from how to discipline toddlers to how to stay connected with teenagers. Kendrick has appeared as an expert on national broadcast media such as CBS, Fox Television Network, Cable News Network, CNBC, PBS, and National Public Radio. In addition, he's been quoted in the New York Times, Washington Post, Chicago Tribune, Boston Globe, USA Today, Reader's Digest, BusinessWeek, Good Housekeeping, Woman's Day, and many other publications.
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