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Your Baby and Teething

Find tips for keeping your baby comfortable while teething.

Your Baby and Teething


If you use a teether that contains gel, be sure to examine it regularly for cracking or other signs of wear and tear.

Certainly teething may also cause some irritability, if not from the pain then from the pressure of the teeth against the underside of the gums. Unfortunately, your child's primary means of solace, sucking, offers him little comfort when he is teething. In fact, sucking may increase the pressure on his gums and any pain he feels.

Your baby is in an impossible position: They want to suck because of its soothing effects, but they doesn't want to suck because it causes them pain. As a result, your teething child may lose some of his appetite for nursing (or bottle-feeding)-and maybe for solid foods, too. If they do drink from the breast or bottle, your baby may stop short and then start again many times. Try not to worry. Once the tooth has cut through the surface, their appetite will return.


Do not offer food as a teether until your baby has begun eating solid foods. Even after they've started on solids, stay with them and stay alert if you offer them a hard food to use as a teether. Take special care that your baby doesn't choke on any piece that breaks off in their mouth. Be ready to fish out any small piece of food with your finger.

Because sucking doesn't do the trick, you have to try something else to relieve the pressure on your baby's gums. Teethers, especially cold ones, are likely to offer your baby some much-needed comfort. By biting down on a teether, your baby can balance the pressure from under the gums. Cold teethers have the added benefit of numbing the gums to extend the relief.

Any of the following items make great teethers:

  • A teething ring, especially one designed with a gel inside that cools when stored in a refrigerator
  • A hard, smooth toy with no pieces that might break off
  • A toothbrush
  • A bagel
  • A frozen banana
  • Something cold to eat
  • An ice cube
  • A cold, wet washcloth
  • A small piece of ice wrapped inside a washcloth

If your baby bites down on your breast or fingers when teething, remember that they're not trying to hurt you. To relieve the pressure from under the gums, they will bite down on virtually anything you put in their mouth.

So try not to get angry with your baby. If you must, say (but don't shout), "Ow!" Then gently but firmly draw them away from your breast. Look into their eyes as you tell them, "No biting!" Then return them to the breast if he's still interested. (Be patient. It may take more than one lesson for your message to sink in.)

Your baby will also find their own "teethers":

  • The handle of a rattle
  • The railing of his crib or playpen
  • An unsuspecting relative's finger
  • Their mother's breast

If none of these teethers work for your baby, try rubbing the tooth and/or gum firmly with your own finger. (You may want to dip your finger in ice water first to chill it.) Consult your pediatrician before using liquid acetaminophen (or any other medication) to ease pain associated with teething.

The first teeth, which are always the front ones, are not for chewing, but rather for biting. But although your baby won't use these teeth to chew, they still start to chew food around the time their first teeth come in. Even before the molars start coming in, your baby learns to chew using just his gums. Actually, your baby probably started to practice chewing on toys at around three or four months. But by five or six months, he needs food to practice on, too. Again, watch your baby carefully whenever he's chewing on anything. If they swallow something without chewing it thoroughly, they may start to choke.

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