For parents

Question:

Quick question: how many potty training accidents are normal when you first start potty training? Other parents told me it was so easy, some say it took a year, and I don't know what to expect (we're just starting).

Dr. Ana’s Answer:

As you can see from what other parents have told you, each child is different. Some children learn to use the potty quickly, whereas others find it more difficult. It does not mean anything whether your child finds it more difficult or easier.  

Question:

I'm having trouble potty training with my baby girl. Do you have any tips that will help? 

Dr. Ana’s Answer:

You are not the only parent finding potty training difficult. Potty training is a tricky period for many families. So much so that it’s a time associated with increased child abuse.  

Question:

Thoughts on a weighted blanket for kids? Will it smother? I want to help their anxiety.

Dr. Ana’s Answer:

Weighted blankets have been used for a long time, especially for children with autism of behavioural issues. They may provide benefits for people with anxiety, but the reality is that there is not much research about it. So, go ahead if you want to give it a go but it may or may not help your child. Ideally, you should look for one that is no more than 10% of your child’s body weight so it is not too heavy.  

Question:

Tips for helping to relieve severe separation anxiety disorder in teens? My tweens are both suffering from this but I don't know how to assist or help them manage it or how to fix it. Thank you! 

Dr. Ana’s Answer:

Teenagers living with separation anxiety show signs of fear when they have to say goodbye to their parents or caregivers or just the thought of being separated from them. This anxiety can make them miss school, work, and other activities that require being away from their parents or caregivers. 

Question:

Can you have separation anxiety disorder in adolescence? My 15-year-old is acting very strange and clingy all of a sudden.

Question:

How can I recognize and address alcohol misuse or abuse in teenagers, and what steps can I take to help prevent alcoholism or addiction during adolescence? I'm trying to support my daughter while she's in rehab by taking care of her teens, but I want to keep an eye out for alcohol issues in them before they can get bad (she drank badly around them, maybe it rubbed off?).

Question:

Our doctor mentioned toddler potty training regression when I told him about our potty-trained toddler having accidents on purpose. What should I do if he does have regression? 

Dr. Ana’s Answer:

Potty training regression is normal. Consider that children’s learning is not linear. They sometimes get stuck or may even go backwards depending on other skills they may need or depending on what is going on in their life.  

Question:

My 6-year-old is having a lot of accidents, even though she was doing well and had gotten through potty training with no problems. What can I do, or what is causing this? 

Dr. Ana’s Answer:

Given that your child is 6, I would first consult with the doctor to rule out any health condition, like a bladder infection, constipation, painful bowel movements, diabetes, or any developmental issue.  

Question:

Please can you advise on why my toddler says no to everything? My mother-in-law said it's a "normal toddler no phase", but I'm getting so fed up! 

Question:

Can you please give three tips for parents when feeding toddlers that I can share with my daughter-in-law? 

Dr. Ana’s Answer:

Here are five tips for feeding toddlers that will hopefully be helpful: