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Ask Dr. Ana: How Many Accidents Are Normal When Potty Training?

Parenting expert Dr. Ana answers how many potty training accidents are normal and shares tips for staying patient and consistent while supporting your child through the process.

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Updated: August 14, 2025
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Updated: August 14, 2025

Question:

Quick question: how many potty training accidents are normal when you first start potty training? Other parents told me it was so easy, some say it took a year, and I don't know what to expect (we're just starting).

Dr. Ana’s Answer:

As you can see from what other parents have told you, each child is different. Some children learn to use the potty quickly, whereas others find it more difficult. It does not mean anything whether your child finds it more difficult or easier.  

Accidents happen, they are part of the learning process. Some children may have trouble recognizing when they need to wee, whereas others may have accidents because they get too excited about what they are doing and forget that they need to week. 

There isn’t a “normal” number of accidents. Remember to be consistent, patient and to reassure your child whenever he has an accident. With time, your child will have stop having accidents.  

Have a read at this article: Tips for Potty Training Boys 

I hope this information is useful. I wish your family all the very best. 

Love,  

Ana 

Dr Ana Aznar 

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