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Ask Dr. Ana: Why Is My 6-Year-Old Suddenly Having Potty Accidents?

Parenting expert Dr. Ana answers why your 6-year-old may be having sudden potty accidents and offers supportive advice to address the issue with love and understanding.

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Updated: July 31, 2025
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Updated: July 31, 2025

Question:

My 6-year-old is having a lot of accidents, even though she was doing well and had gotten through potty training with no problems. What can I do, or what is causing this? 

Dr. Ana’s Answer:

Given that your child is 6, I would first consult with the doctor to rule out any health condition, like a bladder infection, constipation, painful bowel movements, diabetes, or any developmental issue.  

If the doctor rules out anything physical, it could be that your child is going through a potty training regression. Regressions can happen for any number of reasons: starting a new school, the arrival of a new sibling, moving home, parental divorce… If your child is going through any of these situations, give him time to adjust to this change. If your child attends school, have a chat with her teacher to find out if there is something going on that may be upsetting him.  

Tell your child that you have noticed he is having more accidents and ask him why this might be. Listen to what he has to say and do what you can to support him. Do not blame him, shame him, or punish him when he has an accident. Instead, be supportive and loving. Remind him regularly to use the loo.  

I hope this information helps. I wish you and your little one all the very best.  

Love,  

Ana 

Dr Ana Aznar 

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