Dr. Ana Aznar
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In our Ask Dr Ana series, Dr. Ana Aznar answers real questions from parents with practical, evidence-based advice. Dr. Ana Aznar is the founder of REC Parenting and a psychologist who specializes in parenting, family relationships, and children’s socioemotional development. Parents can also submit their own questions for free expert parenting advice.
Parent’s question
“What are your top tips for improving my child’s study habits while still respecting his autonomy and encouraging him to set his own schedule and learn independence? I worry that he’s not putting enough time into something boring like homework, but he’s more than happy to pitch in with cooking, cleaning, and helping with his younger siblings. He’s the oldest, 11 years old, etc., so I’m glad he’s able to manage his time in that way. I just want to set him up for success!”
Dr Ana’s answer
I think the key here is whether your son is doing well at school. If his grades are good, it suggests that whatever time he is spending on his homework is enough. If he is doing well and his teachers have no issues, I wouldn’t worry too much.
And on top of that, he is happy to help at home, lucky you!
How parents can support better study habits
Children do not always need to study for longer to build better study habits. A child who completes homework, keeps up in class, and receives no concerns from teachers may already be managing their workload well.
For parents, the key is to focus on outcomes rather than minutes. Look at whether:
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Homework is completed
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Your child understands the work
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Grades are steady
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Teachers are happy with their progress
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Schoolwork is not causing regular stress at home
At 11, children also need chances to practise independence. Instead of taking over your child’s homework schedule, ask them to make a plan.
You might say, “When are you planning to do your homework?” or “Would you like me to check in later?”
This helps your child build responsibility while still knowing you are available.
If homework starts being missed, grades drop, or teachers raise concerns, then it may be time to add more structure. Until then, trusting your child’s current approach may be the most supportive thing you can do.
Dr Ana Aznar’s parenting expertise
Dr. Ana Aznar has a BA in Psychology from The Open University, UK, an MSc in Applied Child Psychology from Kingston University, UK, and a PhD in Developmental Psychology from Kingston University, UK. She conducts research on parenting, family relations, and children’s socioemotional development.
Child study habits FAQs
How can I improve my child’s study habits?
Help your child create a simple homework routine, but avoid managing every step. Focus on consistency, understanding, and whether schoolwork is being completed.
How long should an 11-year-old spend on homework?
There is no perfect amount of time. If homework is complete, grades are steady, and teachers are not concerned, your child may already be spending enough time.
Should I check my child’s homework every night?
You can check in, but try not to correct everything. Children need to take ownership of their work and learn from mistakes.
How do I support homework independence?
Ask your child when they plan to do their homework, what they need to get started, and whether they want a check-in later. This gives support without taking control.
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