Ask Dr. Ana: How Can My Baby’s Dad Bond With Our Newborn?

Question:

My ex/baby daddy isn't very involved with our infant daughter and keeps asking what to do with a newborn—any suggestions I can give him? I know she's not play-aged yet but still.

Dr. Ana’s Answer:

Many men find it difficult to bond with a newborn. Here is a list of things that he can do with the baby: 

• Take her out for a walk  
• Read her a book: it is never too early to start reading to our children.  
• Give her a bath: most babies enjoy bath time and it can be a lovely time for them to be together 
• Feed her: I am not sure how you are feeding her but if she takes bottles, he might enjoy it.  

You may also find these articles useful: 

• Activities for Infants  
• Lullaby Songs and  Why They Work 

I wish you three all the very best and I hope you found these ideas useful. 

Love,  

Ana 

Dr Ana Aznar 

Do you have questions for Dr. Ana? Ask for free today!

Related content:

• Should I Talk to My Daughter About My Grandson's Weight?
• Why Does My Daughter Think We Hate Her?
• How Can I Get My Husband to Help More With the Baby?