General Adoption Information
(If you look at no other resource, look at this comprehensive one)
Explaining Adoption to Your Child
Adopt: Assistance, Information, plus options and searching
Tapestry Books, Adoption Book Catalog
Tel.# 1-800-765- 2367
On your behalf, I have also personally spoken to a nationally renowned expert in adoption (she herself was adopted) named Dr. Joyce Maguire Pavao. You may call her personally at her Center for Family Connections in Boston (1-800-KINNECT) and use my name. The Center will be able to tell you of people in your area who could help you.
It's obvious you love Stephanie deeply. You are doing what needs to be done and with Dr. Pavao's help and the resources I've provided you, you'll be able to handle this in the best way possible. Let me know how you're progressing.