The description below was contributed by: A visitor, on Sep 18, 2001 02:26:46PM Suggestion Rating
What type of tragedy does this advice address: Death Terminal Illness and Disease Acts of Violence Natural Disasters Fire Accidents Suicide Divorce
This advice is most appropriate for parents with children in... Preschool and Younger Elementary School Middle School
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Let children know that it is okay to feel upset, and explain that all feelings are okay when a tragedy like this occurs. Let children talk about their feelings and help put them into perspective. Even anger is okay, but children may need help and patience from adults to assist them in expressing feelings appropriately.
Observe children's emotional state. Depending on their age, children may not express their concerns orally. Changes in behavior, appetite,and sleep patterns can also indicate a child's level of grief, anxiety or discomfort. Children will express their emotions differently. There is no right or wrong way to feel or express grief.