What type of tragedy does this advice address:
Death
Acts of Violence

This advice is most appropriate for parents with children in...
Preschool and Younger
Elementary School
Middle School
High School & Beyond

Did your family ever deal with this type of tragedy?
Yes

Please describe the tragedy:
The acts of terrorism on Sept. 11, 2001 at the World Trade Center, the Penatgon, and in Pennsylvania.

How did you address those feelings and help your child deal with the tragedy?
The sensation of being powerless can lead to depression, so it benefits everyone to channel those urges to Help! Children (and adults) can help in ways big and small.


In times of adversity that touch us all, it's even more vital to harness that power that comes from the belief that "we are all in this together!"

Please add any additional comments or suggestions:
Simple tasks that ease everyday living can be most appreciated, especially if you are well acquainted with the person or agency needing help. Even in times when the big bad news of the day is all over the newspapers, and the television news, the sadness and the need is often right around the corner, closer to home, where anyone could deal with a piece of it and help.


Examples: shopping for groceries, running errands, babysitting or providing an outing, providing transportation, delivering a complete meal (reheatable, w/disposable pans/dishes), mowing a lawn, doing laundry, answering telephones and taking messages, caring for pets in their owner's absence, raising money for a cause or benefit (try a garage sale, raffle, car wash, penny drive...), writing a letter of love and support...


The list could go on forever; brainstorm with your children. You may be surprised what ideas they have!


There is strength in numbers, too, so scout troops, schools, and youth groups can accomplish amazing things, strengthening their ties with the community, and becoming more responsible with every effort.