Description:
We are all spectators of the game of life. And whether you're watching the news on TV, the World Series, or a local touch football game, being a spectator can provide the perfect opportunity to discuss good sportsmanship with your kids.

Unfortunately, there are too many headlines in the news that glorify bad sportsmanship at the pro-level. Players disrespect themselves when they kick and shove their teammates and spit at their coaches or umpires. Too often they get away with it with little or no consequence and this sends the wrong message to our kids regarding good sportsmanship. This is when the opportunity for a discussion begins.
If a player or coach is penalized for arguing or fighting with another player or an official, discuss whether or not you agree with the penalty and how the penalty hurts not only the player, but the entire team. If an athlete disagrees with an official's call, see if he lets his anger get in the way of play or if he can voice his opinion professionally and get right back into the game.

Acknowledge examples of good sportsmanship, good plays and discuss the benefits to athletes that quickly regain their composure after making mistakes. Talk with your kids about the methods you used to handle your own mistakes, frustrations from bad calls, physical limitations or other disappointments.

Appropriate age group(s):
Preschool and Younger
Elementary School
Middle School
High School & Beyond