Appropriate age group(s):
Elementary School
Middle School
High School & Beyond

Description of technique:
Your straight-A student is now getting C's because he's decided it's not cool to be smarter than his friends. To a child trying to fit in, underachieving can be much safer than being called a geek or the class nerd. What can you do?
Encourage your kids to hang out with other smart kids. Get them involved with school activities that will encourage them to use their brainpower and help them develop their self-esteem such as music programs, school government and sports.
Make your home a place where they can nurture their strengths without comparison, ask questions without feeling stupid and encourage the development of their unique interests. Enjoy regular family outings and activities together such as biking or hiking, going on a picnic or to the beach, or volunteering to help those less fortunate. Spending time together as a family helps build stronger communication skills and helps foster a child's sense of self-worth.
Participate in non-school activities such as the YMCA, your local church or synagogue, or the boy/girl scouts. This helps widen the circle of friends and provide more options for growth.