Whether your child is expressing a desire to learn to play an instrument, crochet or swim, encourage these wishes by helping your child to take up a hobby!1. Your child can gain independence and a strong sense of self when given the chance to try things he or she is really excited about.
2. First, you'll need to find out your child's level of commitment. Your child needs to present good reasons as to why he or she wants to start a project or take lessons of some sort.
3. You will need to explain that there is a commitment of time and energy involved. Explain that there might be sacrifices involved as well. Your child might have to put something else on hold to have the time to start a new project.
4. Create a schedule so that your child will be able to practice or work on his or her hobby at a set time every week. This will help to solidify your child's commitment to the hobby.
5. Once you feel that this is truly something that your child is serious about, help him or her to make it happen by signing up for lessons, buying necessary materials, etc.
6. Encourage your child to do his or her best and to keep to his or her commitment.
7. Taking individualized lessons or working alone on a hobby can help your child develop a sense of independence and freedom of expression.