My stepkids dont respect me
06/26/2010 at 10:03 AM

Hi I have been married 5 years to my husband. He has 3 sons over 21 yrs old.

We live away and hardly see his sons, they have lives of their own. we send cards presents for sons and grandkids, but my husband gets nothing back. A lot of lies have been said about my husband by his sons,in the past, not sure if that is jealousy on their part. I have tried to keep out and remain neutral.

Went to a party at one of the sons house last weekend I was not invited as such and all they did to me was to insult me, they called me the "wife" not my name and tried there very best to belittle me.

My husband did not see it happening and I feel angry at him for his. I feel the sons dont respect me, and I did feel upset about it. Now I want nothing more to do with his sons, and I feel I have done nothing wrong, why was I treated that way.

My husband still wants to stay in contact with them and am not stopping him.

Any advice would be gratefully appreciated.