I'm new to this message board thing and to this site, so please forgive any errors I may do, but I'm at a loss. I married my husband at age 21 (24 now) and he has two young children, both girls. The oldest one, Payton (9) is too smart for her own good, and my sanity. She asked me where babies come from...and how they got there. I've never lied to her before and I'm completely honest with her about any question she may ask, but this one stumped me. I know her mother won't care if I answer it, but should I? Is this a question that should be answered by the biological mother or is it okay for stepmom to answer?