I am new to this whole step family thing and need some advice. I am engaged to a man with a 10 yr old daughter and we are also expecting our first in June. We were planning on spending the holiday with my parents two hours away bc he and his daughter are going to MT. skiing for a week over the New Years. I am staying behind to save up on PTO for my coming maternity leave. He just told me yesterday that he is going to spend Christmas Day
with his daughter and ex. I am feeling very hurt and left out but feel selfish if I say anything. Any advice would be so appreciated.