My fiance and I have been together almost 5 years. We just started living together 3 months. One of his sons (17) lives with us and the other one is 21 and just visits. I have two boys, 14 and 12. When we got engaged in August, it was under the agreement that I would have my boys every other weekend.
Circumstances have changed and now the boys are with their Dad during the week and with me on the weekend.
So my fiance is tired of it and now calls this the "event" when my kids come over. We can't come to an agreement and it is always a fight. We are about done with each other. I had given up my house and during the last few months lost my job so now I am stuck.
He says he just wants time alone on the weekend but even when my kids weren't with me everything revolved around his 17 year old.
I love him so much but today was my breaking point when he said..great we have to go get the event about my youngest. My youngest is 12 and really just watches movies and reads while he is here. His room isn't done yet.
I can't stop crying.