HELP!! My stepson lives with us, me, husband, daughter and brother. He is very smart and loving and is even being tested for gifted classes. He refuses to follow the rules at school and at home. He will do only what he wants and his reason is because he wants to, he likes having fun, and that he doesn't like the rules. He will have a bedwetting accident and then put his pajammas back up and wear his wet underwear to school. He will purposely lay down for his nap at school near toys and get in trouble daily for playing with them. He pulls sticks every day in school for not minding. At home as long as you are not looking he will make sure he does what he knows he is not suppose to do. He lies to us all the time. When he gets in trouble we make sure he understood what he was suppose to do and that he knows what the consequences where going to be. He just doesn't care. He does it all anyway. He breaks other peoples toys because he wants to. He walks around happy all the time and has so much love and compliments to give to anyone that will take it. But nothing we do gets through to him!!! What are we suppose to do to make him want to do right and respect adults and other people.