I've been having trouble with my youngest daughter and I don't know what to do about it. I have a 9 year old daughter who is in a wheelchair and has a learning disability. Her and my 6 year old daughter get along really well. My problem is my 6 year old now wants to be like my 9 year old. She wants to set in a special chair at the table like her sister, She wants to go to a special school, She wants to ride in a wheelchair and she wants to wear diapers like her sister does. How do I get her to stop wanting to do this? My daughter's teacher said she had never seen this kind of reaction from the younger sibling. It is the special needs child that wants to be like their sibling. Not the other way around. She suggested I treat my 6 year old like her sister and let her see it isn't as much fun as she thinks it is. I'm not sure I want two in diapers and in wheelchairs. It is alot of work having one of them in diapers and in a wheelchair. Two is going to be even harder for me.