Hi there - new to this site and looking for advice. I am mother of 3 sons with full custody. Their father lives in another state and only sees the boys once or twice a year for long weekends. : -( Two of the boys are in college, the third is in 8th grade. No problems with the divorce which was 3 years ago. The kids encouraged me to date, and after dating several guys once or twice, I met a gentleman whom I fell for hook, line, and sinker. We've dated for over a year and the relationship is moving slowly along. We recently went on our first vacation together and it was great. Although we find time to be together intimately, I can't spend as much time away from my youngest now that his brothers are living away from home. I'm thinking I'd like to invite my friend to spend the night at my house but not sure how to handle this. My son knows him, likes him, and seems to be in favor of the relationship. How do I broach this idea with both of these important men in my life?
thanks in advance!