My boyfriend and I live 1,500 miles apart, adding to the distance issues in our relationship I have some concerns about his parenting style. He allows his nine year old daughter to fall asleep in his bed and sleep there the entire night. I feel he should take her into her room and let her sleep in her own bed. I have known him for fourteen years, lived with him once for several years, I know there is nothing of a sexual nature in this, I know him very well and he is absolutley not that kind of man. I do feel it is inappropriate for him to continue letting his daughter, who is now developing, to sleep in his bed. Am I off base?