I don't know if this is the right category, but here it goes. My son is in kindergarten (our first child to enter school). We cut him off cold turkey from naps so that he can get to bed earlier at night so he can wake up early enough for school. Since we've made this decision, it means that we can't meet my family (my parents, brother & sister in law & 2 nieces) for our usual Sunday dinners or anything during the week for that matter. We live 45 minutes away from them. If we went, that would mean that our son would get to bed late and not be ready to get up and moving in the morning for school. Am I really too anal to say 'no' to my family? THANKS!!!