My 14 yr old son just informed me that he is no longer a virgin. I was so surprised at how candid he was in sharing his experience. I, of course was crushed; I wasn't ready for this information. But then again, what parent is. I have had countless conversations with my son explaining the consequences that could occur and also letting him know that I was available if he had any questions or concerns. I wasn't prepared that he would come to me AFTER the fact. My son confessed that it happened afterschool, at his girlfriend's house, her parents were at work of course. Now, I am so paranoid to leave him home alone longer than 10 minutes. I don't know what I should do next. Do I tell her parents? He told me that he used protection, but I made it a point to advise him that condoms weren't foolproof. Of course there is the common misnomer that we are both virgins, and in love so there is no chance of sexually tranmitted diseases. I am reluctant to contact her parents as her father already threatened my son if he continued to see her.