Our daughter is 16 years old. She is a very good kid. She gets excellent grades and is very involved in many leadership clubs in her school. We couldn't ask for a better behaved child. But for some reason no matter what I say to her she turns it into an arguement. Constantly rolling her eyes at me or slamming her door on me when I ask her for help. It seems like no matter what I say to her she takes it the wrong way yells at me and then slams her bedroom door and we don't see her until the next day. Is this normal behavior Do we have hope of it ending someday? My husband says that I need to pick my battles. I feel like I'm the mom and she shouldn't talk to me the way she does. It's driving me crazy and the rest of the family because we are always arguing.