Yes my daughter is on birth control..but I thought I could trust the boys mom. The woman says they have to leave the door open if they are in the spare room playin video games and otherwise they are in the living room.My daughter has been goin over there at least 3 times a week..They have been together for 2 months but the reason I allow this is cuz his mom has MS and has had siezures lately and they only have one vehicle and the boy does not want to be far from his mom. Since his mom is home ALL the time. I thought I would make an exception. Just found out they had sex..my daughters first. I decided once a week and not all day either and I will talk with the mom.Only my daughter made the comment after 3 weeks they were allowd to close the door.I am irate to say the least.This boy is a nice boy and I do not condone this behavior, but I just dnt know if I can trust the mom, and I dont want to cause them to break up.Now that I putlimits on her time there, or I say no about something she says I wish I had never told you..you are sayin no cuz you think we will have sex.We are gettin ready to start counseling maybe my answer is there.Just tryin to get some advice anything while I await my counseling appointment.please help...sooooo sad...and yes she knows all about disease and other consequences of sex.