Any idea's what to do with a mouthy 13 year old? I tried to speak to my x-husband about it and he said to put soap in her mouth. I think not. She is 13 not a toddler! I realize she is going through all kinds of changing mentally and physically and I can except that , but I cant stand for disrepect and plain ole nasty from her. Is my sweet child still in her body somewhere? HELP.. any suggestions besides soap will be greatly appreciated.