help! I need advice on how to handle this situation. my daughter has been dating a boy (19) she's a senior, he just graduated,for 6 months.so far not alot of problems with her, and she is planning on college, she has great friends. boyfriend seems like a nice kid,parents are also very nice.I just found out she is sexually active(found condom)I explained how I did not approve, was very dissapointed ect...she does not want to talk about birth control, and I'm not sure if I would want to put her on birth control, I feel it sends a mixed message. anyway, he leaves for college in a week.She needs to finish her senior year.He's only an hour away. so they will probably be in toach. How do I get through this next year? .dissapointed mom.