I have a question. My boyfriend has a 14yr old daughter. Her mother has been back in her life now for about 2yrs. Her mother has been dating this 30yr old guy on and off for about 2yrs, he just went to jail for stealing about 2 weeks ago. We just found out today from letters the 30yr old(her mother's boyfriend) was trying to send to the 14yr old girl that they have been in a relationship for a while and more than likely sleeping together.
Pretty much to sum it up is My boyfriend's daughter (that is 14) was having a relationship (sleeping with) her mom's boyfriend who is 30yrs old.
Problem is we don't know what to do, we have talked to the cops and we don't have enough evidence to press charges against the 30yr old man. (Thankfully right now he is in jail) so we don't have to worry about them being together for a little while. But what do you do to the 14yr old girl? How do you make her understand that being with a 30yr old man isn't ok and exspecially it being her mom's boyfriend? (Which makes me sick).
They both are writing back and forth saying: we will get through this, we have our whole lives together.
Please post all advice you have on this matter. I don't know what to tell him to help him out with his daughter in this very messed up matter.