Stay at home mom what's your daily schedule? I have an infant, a toddler and a preschooler
07/24/2012 at 07:46 AM

Hi, I would love some help with a daily schedule for my family and so I was hoping some of you would help me out. What is your family's schedule?

Okay you need to meet the guy. Have you met the guy yet? I tell you what, I am 25 years old and so is my husband and my husband has 19 and 20 year old freinds and I will tell you from experience being around all of them the 25 year old guy is the most maturist and the least likely to hurt her. I'm sorry but from the way my husbands friends talk about women behind their back and then act around them like they are so sweet when they are around, I would say the 25 year old guy is better than a 19 or 20 year old. Young guys still think about sex all the time and a 25 year old is more likley to respect your daughter and stay and own up to his responsibilities if she gets pregnant. I think it's fine...actually I think it may be great. Of course I would meet him right away.

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Ya staturtory rape, sorry forgot about that, in Kentucky the legal age is 16. I understand what you are talking about now. He's going out to bars and clubs then that's a problem. She should have a talk with him about that. Another thing, remind her that there are alot of fish in the sea and if your decission is to discontinue the relationship then she isn't doomed and will find another man out there. Or you can tell her that if he really loves her he will wait until she is 18 and wait for the bars and clubs until she is old enough.

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Age isn't the concern here, it's maturity. Age is just a number and you wouldn't mind if she was 27 and he 35, would you? first you have to find out how mature and responsible he is and if you meet him, you would perhaps be able to judge this. Watch their body language and see how he treats her. I think that, for your daughter's sake, you have to let him prove himself to you. Please give him a chance at least. You never know, you might get to really like him.

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