Ok, so we did the bad thing. We have let our daughter sleep with us, until now we cant take it anymore. She is 16 months old, and we have an unfortunate living situation, we are currently in my in-laws basement. My husband and I have to share a room with our daughter, and she DOES have a crib that is less than a foot away from my side of the bed (no we cant move it any farther) and she refuses to sleep there, if she falls asleep elsewhere and we put her in the crib, then she wakes up screaming.... and we tried the cry it out thing... wont work! and she has fallen asleep in the crib, same thing wakes up after a couple of hours and SCREAMS any suggestions! PLEASE HELP!!!