I really need help with this! My almost-8 year old step son is making life miserable. He steals from my two daughters and me, lies, physically and emotionally hurts others in the family, breaks things belonging to others, and has recently started peeing in his room or peeing himself, and pooping in his pants. I am going crazy with this. We are on our 3rd therapist. I feel he should either return some of the 40 plus items he has stolen, or pay for them. I am going broke trying to replace everything. (The latest was my daughter's IPOD). His dad seems to excuse everything going on ("He's only 7... he's having a hard time adjusting.. etc.) This has been going on for over 2 years, and I'm just curious - what would you do?