Holidays with the inlaws help
06/02/2010 at 05:42 AM

Hi im new to this site and not sure how it works but could really do with some advice please,im gun give bit of back ground so its not so confusing.last year I went on holiday with my husband 2 children at the time our youngest was a baby and our eldest 5, and my husbands parents and niece who at the time was 4. His niece was awfull to our daughter of 5.tryin to get her into trouble for things I know she didnt do, rubbing it in her face that she had things my daughter didnt if things didnt go her way it was an almighty tantrum and head ache for everyone,any time my daughter had some thing she didnt she would get nasty and push her about or break what she had , also everythin had to be a comp she always had to be better than my daughter constantly sayin mine is better than hers isnt it nan she also tryed pushing her down the stairs on one occasion I bought them both a little somethin from the shop and she said she didnt want hers she wanted my daughters . Is it just me or does she sound like a brat? Even worse tho it was really frustrating becoz she never got disaplined for her bad behaviour and if I stepped in id get that look of my mother inlaw. Now not alot has changed if anythin my mum inlaw thinks the child is an angel and no one matches up to her she spends 3 to 4 days a week with her my kids are lucky if they see her 1ce every 2wks. They have invited us to come again this year but not sure how to deal with the niece being like that if it happens again but dont see why we Shouldnt go coz our kids deserve a holiday 2 and are well disaplined so well behaved not angels but not spoilt brats,dont see why they should miss out on time with grandparents either. Not sure what to do. Help