While I love all of my grandparents, I'm having some issues dealing with them.
First, my grandmother that I live with. She is never ever happy. I can't even have a civil conversation with her anymore without it turning into a fight. Literally anything I say to her, or even if I'm in the wrong place in the house at the wrong time she screams. She has nothing good to say about anything. Adding to this is the fact that she refuses to see a doctor. She has swelling in her legs, and she's been to the E.R. a few times for it, but refuses to follow up with doctors because she thinks they are only out for money. I am at a loss here and I don't know what to do with her.
Then my grandfather. I haven't seen him in about 6 years. I ran into him a few weeks ago, and his wife (no relation) kindly informed me that they haven't bothered to see me since I was 18 because it was my responsibility to contact them after that point. They claim I didn't, but I called, wrote emails, and regular mail letters never receiving a response. Shouldn't it be a two way street?
I just don't know what to do anymore...