I have a 4 month old and a 2 yr old, I can't seem to stay motivated enough to excercise and I see my body changing. I had lost all the weight but have continually gained it back and then some. Supposed to be getting married in less than a year. What should I do, and any advice on losing the pudge on the lower belly?! I'm only 21 I don't feel this is how I should feel about myself so any advice would be Awesome and much apprecieated!