I have an issue with my sister in law. She seems to take it upon themselves to scold my kids even if I am there in the room. She is consistently giving my husband and I parenting advice though she no childrent of her own. I assume she feels this way since she is my husbands older sister but in my family, I am the older sister and I'm not used to this at all. I have a real issue with her reprimanding my children, cutting my sons' bangs when she thinks it's too long (!) or they can't play with their toys until they've cleaned their plates. <p>I'm not a confrontational person and I hate when there is static in the air with someone who is family but I really don't like someone going over my head. I consider myself to be a great mom! I've told my husband about this and he doesn't see the problem. Am I being too sensitive or is she crossing the line? What is a polite way to tell her to butt out?