Ok here is the situation. Sorry if it seems long but I want to be fair to both side. I fell in love with a younger woman than I approximatly 19 yrs younger. I currently have two older children in there 20's. Anyways we had a daughter together which is now 5yrs old. Due to problems that the mother had in her life she is a recovering addict. She currently has 18mos clean. Our daughter lives with me and I have full custody. She lives in a 3/4 house for recovering addicts. Yes she is doing great going back to school and all.
Now for the problems. She doesnt have a license so has to rely on others to drive her around. She has a male friend (which im sure she has dated in the past) driving my daughter with her around places. She tells me this person has been clean for 9 years. I say so what. I dont feel a 5yr old needs to be going to AA or Na meetings. I dont feel that she should be driven around by people other than family members and should not be around anyone she has or is dating. Any help from anybody on this situation eiter way would be great. I also would like to hear from people that maybe their parents took them to AA or NA meetings and their personnal feelings on it.
Thank you for any and all your help.