We currently rent a home that has an extra 1 bedroom guest house. My mother-in-law has no where to live - so we rented the extra house too - on our dime! I also have a 26 year old brother-in-law that has no where to live. We let him stay with his mother in the guest house.
Keep in mind my husband and I pay for everything.
My brother-in-law started dating this girl that lives about 30 miles away. She works close to our house. The last couple of weeks she has been staying the night 3-4 times a week.
I told him I do not want her staying the night. The guest house is for his mother and for him to get on his feet - not to be bringing girls home and partying. 3 days later she stayed the night again.
Am I wrong to not allow this girl to stay the night? My issues are that we are paying for the food, the water for showers & toilets and everything. We have 7 people under our roof and are struggling to support them.
My in-laws think I'm being wrong and that it is no big deal. She saves gas by staying the night - why is this my problem. Please help. I feel terrible but want to stick by what I feel is right.