I have been in this relationship for 4 years now and is quite happy as we only see each other couple of weekends at a time due to the distance. We live 100 miles apart. I have a 8 year old son. My boyfriend now wants us to move in with him very soon. I am just scared as although things have really worked out how it is now. But he finds it abit hard and tiring driving most weekends. Sometimes we have a break by not seeing each other one weekend in a month or even two weekends. We are happy and we done quite alot together. He is 10 years older than me and has two lovely daughters and a granddaughter. Both don't live with him so he is alone most of the time. My son lives with me full time. He accepts my son but occassially moans that he has alot of activities some weekends I have to take him football matches and other things. So therefore we don't see each other or have time together. My son does not see his boc father at all for the past 7 years now. His father doesn't want to know. I have to do everything and I do enjoy it but it is hard at times. My boyfriend wants to go aboard next year where I can't as I have to consider my son with his schooling. My boyfriend seems to think moving in with him will make life easier for all of us. My son is not keen on the idea as that means leaving everything here where he just started a life and missing families and friends. My boyfriend feels he wants to do things what he wants as he now has no repsonsiblity anymore where I have at the moment and I can't drop everything and go along with him. He seems to understand that. He said that if we move in with him, he can do what he wants by going aboard and away on trips alone and do his photography hobby. As I want to be with my son and make the most of him growing up before he gets into his teens. I just don't know what I should do before I decided to move in with him. My boyf feels that my son's life is taking over my. I was abit hurt by this as that's all my son has just me other than my parents and sisters but they have their own lives. My boyf can be selfish at times and wants what he wants. I understand as he now has a chance. He said that we will be better off and have more money by us moving in. So we can do more.