My wife and I have a two year old son. My father in law is becoming a huge problem because he constantly tries to baby sit my son. So far, I have not allowed it. It is starting to cause a great deal of tension.
He has a sex addiction and talks about sex constantly, even with granddaughters. He has been fired from his last two jobs for sexual harassment. He has topless pictures of his other daughter (who is 35 years old) on his computer and he has taken pictures of my wife’s butt and crotch. He is a member of EHarmony online match making service. He lies about his age. He uses the site to pick up skanky women and have sex with them at his house.
Regardless of the above, he is 64 and MORBIDLY obese. I am not sure if he is even capable of chasing a two year old around. He is on pain medication, anxiety medication, depression medication, and some others.
In addition, he has three ex-wives, the first of which he dumped (along with his three daughters) for his second wife. His third wife was sent to prison for embezzlement. She stole thousands of dollars and used the money for the house. He claims not to have known anything about it.
I could go on and on. He makes my skin crawl. He puts a lot of pressure on my wife about this. He tells her that because I do not allow him to watch our son that I am controlling and abusive. My wife does not see the same man that I see because he is her father.
I feel that he tries to get my son alone, which is another red flag. With everything that I have seen, there is absolutely no way that he will ever spend one second alone with my son. This is starting to be a huge problem. I am at my wits end with this maniac. I have to protect my son at all cost. Does anyone else have any similar stories? If so, any suggestions?