I'm new here. I came across this site when looking for help in trying to understand daughter. She's 26, has a 4 year old daughter and a 2 year old son. My daughter and her children have lived with my husband and I since her oldest was 6 months old. She's never been married and the father of the children is in and out of jail and on drugs. She finally got her head on straight, found a job and was more like her old self for about a year. She had a bounce in her step and a smile on her face. For the past few weeks, she looks so unhappy. I just found out the father of the children is out of jail and he's calling her again. It looks like she doesn't have the strength to tell him to get lost! I have run out of words and patience. This has been going on for years and My husband and I are at the end of our rope. I have raised her two children and it breaks my heart to see where she might be headed again. Any advice??????