I have been engaged since december and was planning a wedding in September...I am now 4 months pregnant. My fiance and I have recently decided to commit ourselves to the christian faith we were raised by. I do not want to have a quick wedding before giving birth to 'save face' or please our grandparents; I just want to be right with god. I don't want to live a cursed life for a second longer. Would it be ridiculous to have two weddings? Just a small one now, but with only a few people and very informal. Then the one I have worked so hard to plan, later?