Hello: I'm Feosia from PR I'm doing my best in english, I love the forum It help me a lot. Here is my problem: I have two children 7,3 respectively. The boy of seven years of age is affectionate, very applied in the school, excellent notes but in the class room the teacher says to me that he speaks so much. Usually he is the first that finishes the subjet in the class. In these days the teacher said to me that she had to stop him in a "Time out corner" by his conduct. I speak affectionately to my childrens and I use many words like: please, thanks, excuse me etc. But lately for him to obey to a mandate I must repeat it about two or three times to get any reaction and even I must raise the voice to him. Therefore I imagine that he is the same way in the classroom. I can say that he does not have hearing problems so that I have proven to speak of other things in low tones and he listens to me. I see this like he is challenging to me. I do not want to see me in this situation. I love my children and I want to remedy this of some way because I feel bad when I sream him. Also I wanted to know like how can I help to his conduct and at the same time improves mine.