Hi all! Iv been married for almost 8 months now and since my husband is an immigrant in the united states it took 3 months to get my visa.. That time i stayed with my in laws for about a month as such things are common in india and i had to hear a lot of derigatory statements from them. They would say stuff like o have u ever seen 5 star hotels, do u know this and im the best sorta stuffs. They would sometimes demean my parents and call their upbringing the best! And also there was a festival one day and my mother inlaw asked me where my jewels were and if i had given it to my mother.. That did it.. How can anyone say such a thing to a bew family member.. My father in law also is equally pesky and would annoy me with hurtful remarks. The day i was flying to the united states they even said things like o that girl's parents need to know how much we have apent on her and stuff.. I have just stopped speaking to both of them now because things were said time and again which is very hurtful to listen.. And now im in the US minding mine own business and these people have been apparently talking ill about me- stuff like she has brainwashed our son and she does not even talk to us, see how bad she is.. I have no idea how to deal with all this.. I just feel like dlying back going up to them and say WTF are ur problems? Why do u do this?! Guys help me.. Wot do i do in this circumstance.. I feel like going up to these relatives and tell them what all they have said and done to me to deserve this reaction.. Im soo sad and pained by all this politics!