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05/06/2011 at 10:53 AM

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I would leave well alone and let her realise this herself. I know as a mother, you don't want your daughter hurt and it is difficult for you not to step in. I have been there often enough with my four children, but believe me, pointing things like this out may only serve to alienate your daughter. She needs to find things like this out for herself, and it will form part of her life experience.
You could try talking in general about things and get her thinking about her relationship with this guy.
Hope it goes well for you both anyway.