My fiance sends emails to his sons teacher to see how well he is doing in class or if to get his progress reports. Im alittle concern when he reads the emails to me bc we had some weird incindent
Before he was tranferred to his 3rd new school. I was talking to the the teacher at his 2nd school and i asked how he was doing and he was doing okay.. well later his son told us that he had already received his progress report so i thought that is weird bc should'nt we have gotten one too? so He emailed her no reply, he waited another 2 weeks but then we found out when we had sent another email he was already transferred to his 3rd new school. Still no reply so he decided to email the priniciple and she sent an email to the teacher asking her please send the Progress Reports so when i did receive it was printed out from the computer so it looked like she wasnt planning on sending us one. She wrote on the back " Thank you for your concern!" so i thought it was kind of weird.
So now with the teacher at his 3rd school we sent in a few emails but then she would say good things about his son but when he comes to our house with his backpack we see that his homework is sloppy he doesnt want to do it he reads below his grade level so i thought what is going on... so last weekend we had to pick him up at 6pm bc we couldnt get him at 2:10pm bc of the mothers boyfriend.... My fiance son told us that he couldnt bring his backpack so he couldnt finish his homework to turn in on monday but as we were talking to him we asked if he has been good in school and she said not really that he was talking a little which got him in trouble with detention.. but the recent email that we got from the teacher we thought why didnt the teacher mention this??? so my fiance cousin said well maybe the mother is telling the teacher that the father is a mean person and always gets mad at him or something
So we thought how can we prove the my fiance is not a mean person or bad father to the teacher so she wouldnt have to cover or lie? to us bc i was talking to him how the teacher talks good of his son but when his son comes over he doesnt seem that interested in school he doesnt like to read all he wants to do is go out or play his games bc his mother and her boyfriend are always out and about. so he is used to the lifestyle and the mother doesnt help him with homework bc she is more concerned abt the the boyfriend??
What should i do ????