I have a question about taking my teen daughter to a resturant for her birthday. First off I got some unwanted advice that I was being a bad parent and need to go to parenting classes by my in-laws. Okay my daughter is 14 years old. For her birthday she wanted to get some BBQ my husband heard about this resturant that opened up named "Bone Daddys" now this resturant is kind of like a "Hooters" with the girls dressing in short shorts and short tops. Well we took our daughter there with our 3 other children and didnt see anything wrong with it, plus we were there. But since the altercation with my in-laws I cant help but wonder is it right or wrong? Then for her birthday party she wanted to go to a Karaoke place. Well we found one called "Family Karaoke" the only one that allowed kids in there and had private rooms to rent. Well another comment was made about the place we took her. Apparantly it was not good cause it was in a low income area and had strip clubs nearby. Again my husband and I were there and didnt see anything wrong with the actual place. So again are we being bad parents?