Ok I am a mom of 5 children. 2 boys 3 girls ages 11,9,9,8,7. It is a yours mine and ours situation. I am at my wits end. They never mind me I can tell them one thing and it is like I never spoke to them. matter of fact they never hear me unless I yell at them which tht is my last resort. I hate to yell. I work a full time job and so does my hubby. but mostly I am there with the kids due to dh working 14 on and 14 off. My kids will walk thru the house with a pop tart and eat the thing then just throw the paper down on the floor. I have did charts I have grounded I have taken things away. I am to the point where I just want to walk away. ( I have never said tht out loud) I am so stressed I have done everything tht I can research and still it doesn't matter. What am I doing wrong. I feel like the worst mother in the world.